Got to agree with you there Clive pretty lights rarely help in most cases . with regards to the diff would you not say its a whole different ball game when your talking about an 80 and i'm talking about a shorty 90 ? IMO from what i've read on here and other places about 90's breaking diffs , the 80 is built like a tank ready for a war zone , everything on it is gonna take a lot to break . Unfortunately (as i own a 90) i'm inclined to think the 90 is not nearly as tough which is why i feel full diff lock is more of a last resort thing than a 4x4 mode .
OK Shayne I'll give you all that, cos I've never driven a shorty 90 and I shouldn't have disagreed like I did.
But, I think our friend Ben Edmonds has either fallen asleep or he's a bit tangled up with all the (valid) stuff that's been posted.
I would suggest that he follows this test pattern:
As correctly stated (above) if he only has the rear shaft on, then the centre diff has to be locked to drive, either by selecting it on the dash switch or by using low ratio. I don't care what lights are flashing, if the centre lock works he'll go along, of it doesn't then it won't. Fact.
The lights may be just leading him off the truth if they are not working correctly, so let's ignore them for now, like I do mine!
Next, if he has the rear and the front props on, which I suggest he has, then I advise him to park on a gravel car park or wet asphalt, select centre lock (or low ratio) and the rear diff lock. Drive very slowly in 1st gear on full steering lock, very slowly means tick-over with the clutch slipping a bit...! If the diff lock is working, the axle will wind up and after less than 1 meter, the inner rear wheel will skip and fling stones everywhere. On wet asphalt it will skip and the car will hop. (Or as Shane has suggested the half shaft will snap)

Do you really think the 90 is so weak Shayne?
On wet grass it will just slide and he probably won't feel it. If none of the above happens, then the rear diff lock ain't workin'.
The front diff lock is easy. If you can steer the car with the front locked on asphalt, then it's not working. If it is working, it feels like the power steering has broken. If the steering feels normal, then it's not working.
Failing all of the above, he needs to get all four of his girlfriends, one posted on each corner, telling him what's happening to each wheel when he's sliding around on the wet grass. Whether and which wheels are spinning and which are not. Then he'll know.
Alternatively, there will be such a cat-fight that he'll forget all about 4x4 (for a while).
Good luck Ben and let us know how you get on. And if there is a cat-fight, photos please!